
The Paradox of Happiness: Why Chasing It Makes It Disappear
The harder you chase happiness, the more it slips away. Here's why — and how to let it find you instead.
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Gautier is a writer and editor based in Paris, with one foot in Provence. He writes essays that lean on the French intellectual tradition — Montaigne, Pascal, Camus — applied to the things people actually do all day. He'd like to convince you that thinking carefully and living well are not different projects.

The harder you chase happiness, the more it slips away. Here's why — and how to let it find you instead.

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